MEHRABAN SALAM

Halabja — In the past month alone, over seven thousand marriage contracts were annulled in Iraq, a clear indicator of the continuously rising divorce rates. Psychologists attribute this escalation to the deterioration of economic conditions, the repercussions of wars, and the prevalence of early marriage.

Psychologist researcher Neshtiman Jamil states that Iraq is currently experiencing a "broad wave of divorces," directly linked to recent political tensions, particularly the war between Iran and Israel and its resulting economic and psychological effects.

The country has witnessed a significant rise in prices, increased psychological pressures, and a general sense of instability within families, leading to an exacerbation of family problems and rising unemployment and debt rates—factors that drive further separation.

Newlyweds Most Vulnerable to Separation

She pointed out that the most affected group are couples who have been married for only two years, explaining that "young people with little experience are the most vulnerable to divorce."

She clarified that society used to tolerate many problems in order to preserve married life, but the social perspective has changed today, and divorce has become a normal option for both parties. Although this may prevent the continuation of a life filled with violence, it leaves significant negative effects on children, who become the primary victims.

Social Media: A Source of Pressure Within Homes

She believes that social media has become a "heavy guest" inside homes, as constant comparisons with influencers drive feelings of inadequacy and dissatisfaction. "When some see a fake ideal life, they begin to ask: why don't we live like them? This creates tension within the family that may end in its collapse."

Neshtiman Jamil emphasizes the need to find radical solutions, foremost among them raising awareness among young people about the reality of married life, noting that what is shown in videos "is not reality" and that some couples who appear to have an ideal life online "have actually separated four times in reality."

She called for not encouraging early marriage in schools, as childhood age does not allow for bearing responsibilities, which later leads to the failure of the marital relationship.

In conclusion, Neshtiman Jamil stressed the need to establish "pre-marital awareness and psychological counseling centers," just as blood tests are conducted, to familiarize young people with the responsibilities of marriage and parenthood. "Today, a young man and woman marry for love alone, without discussing life's goals and foundations. In the end, women and children are the most affected."