The Women’s Café in Ajdabiya... Social Guardianship Competes with Women's Right to Work
An Article by Libyan Journalist AZIZA HUSSEIN
The opening of a café dedicated to women in the Libyan city of Ajdabiya did not need long before it turned from an economic project into a moral issue disputed by social media users. The discussion was no longer related to the nature of the service the place provides, its chances of success, or its contribution to creating new economic activity, but quickly moved to trying the very idea of a space that women choose to frequent, as if their gathering in a public place needs social and moral justification.
On one of the social media pages, a phrase appeared directed at the women who frequent the café: "Women of the café.. remember the agonies of sudden death." A phrase that encapsulates an aspect of the nature of the discourse facing women, where the objection is not limited to a difference of opinion about a commercial project, but invokes religious intimidation and reminders of death and punishment for practicing a normal social activity.
The paradox is that a woman who decides to invest her money and open a project to provide a source of income finds herself before a trial that is not related to her administrative competence or the legality of her activity, but to the extent of others' acceptance of the idea that women have a place of their own. Here the issue transcends the limits of a café in a Libyan city to a broader question about the space society allows women to occupy, and the limits it draws for their economic and social independence.
Economic Independence in the Face of Moral Judgments
The issue acquires an economic dimension no less important than its rights dimension. Libya, which suffers from high living costs, declining purchasing power, and limited job opportunities, needs to expand the base of small projects, not to restrict initiatives that can provide sources of income and new job opportunities.
For many women, self-employment is no longer just an additional option, but a means to confront living conditions, secure basic needs, contribute to supporting the family, and build a degree of financial independence. However, women project owners face challenges related to financing, high rents, operating costs, and difficulty in marketing, in addition to social restrictions that may make the decision to establish the project itself a subject of objection.
From a class perspective, the paradox appears clearer. In a country where high prices exhaust families, health and education services are weak, and problems of corruption, monopoly, and poor management of resources are increasing, a women's café becomes an issue that provokes moral discourse, while the exploitation of citizens, the erosion of their incomes, and the violation of their economic rights do not receive the same attention.
The intent is not to diminish the importance of social values or to demand the abolition of people's right to differ, but to question the selectivity in determining what deserves anger and objection. Why does a commercial project run by a woman become a public issue, while crises affecting the lives of thousands of families do not turn into a similar level of accountability and pressure?
Work and achieving a stable income are two rights that should not turn into a privilege conditional on society's approval. A woman has the right to choose her project, determine its audience, and manage it in accordance with the law, just as a man does. It is not acceptable for every women's initiative to turn into a moral test, or for allocating a place for women to be viewed as a suspicion requiring defense and justification.
Who Protects Women's Right to Choose?
The issue of the women's café in Ajdabiya reveals a problem that transcends the disagreement about a commercial place; it reflects a conflict over women's right to possess economic and social decision-making, and over which party possesses the authority to determine their choices.
A society that wants to protect its members does not do so by threatening or intimidating women, and a state that respects its citizens does not leave their rights hostage to social judgments, but provides a legal framework that protects everyone and guarantees non-discrimination.
Not everyone is required to support women's cafés or frequent them, but what matters is respecting women's right to establish them, work in them, and benefit from their services, as long as their activities are legal and do not violate the rights of others.
The problem is not in a café whose owner chose to open its doors to women, but in a society where some of its members still deal with women's independence as a matter requiring oversight and permission. As for society, it should move toward protecting people's rights and confronting corruption, monopoly, and exploitation, not toward chasing women's initiatives and besieging their sources of livelihood.